Name: Rebecca Love School
Author: Mentor Morris Njogu

About the book

This is a love school. But not the mushy, everything-is-perfect kind. This is the kind where faith meets preparation, where identity matters more than attention, and where we realize that being found by a godly man starts with first finding yourself in God.

Let’s unlearn the myths, embrace the truths, and become the kind of women who are worth the wait, and wise enough to wait well.

Welcome to Rebecca Love School.

Love that comes from God finds you doing what you’re called to do.

Written for

a 21st-century Christian lady still figuring out love in the middle of saved, single, and sometimes slightly confused.

The book, laid out like a course

1 parts and 12 chapters. Open a part to see what each chapter helps you understand.

Full outline

Part1

The chapters

01The God-Factor in LoveThat Rebecca's story began with a prayer, and why prayer should be the plan in love, not the backup.
02Locating Your Tribe, Drawing Your WaterWhy the servant waited at the well, and how to be found in the right places, aligned with your own calling.
03Knowing Your Price, Knowing Your PlaceThat you are the prize: self-awareness and knowing your value before love arrives.
04Don’t Just Pray, Position YourselfThat faith is active: your position matters as much as your petition.
05The Art of the Stake-Out (Testing Without Manipulation)How to discern and test a suitor by your calling and boundaries, without games or manipulation.
06When Authenticity Wins the DayHow Rebecca simply showed up as herself, carrying her jar, and why authenticity is attractive.
07Beauty Beyond FiltersInner beauty and a gentle and quiet spirit in a filter generation.
08The Gentle Strength WithinRebecca watering ten camels: service as strength clothed in humility, not shrinking.
09Silence and Shalom: When He Just KnowsWhy the servant watched in silence, and letting peace, not hype, lead the process.
10The Proposal Is Not a Wedding RingThat pursuit and gifts are not covenant: do not skip the investigation phase.
11Saying Yes Without DramaSaying yes from wholeness and order, not from loneliness or panic.
12Let the Brothers Run: Welcoming Love Into the FamilyWhy godly love invites family and community to discern and confirm, as Laban ran out to the servant.